Who am I?

I go by Scarlet Lotus, aka Tai Quyn Kulystin. I currently identify as a genderqueer fat femme fagette, queer polyamorous switch, vegetarian, and occultist. I prefer other-gendered pronouns (ne/nem/nirs/nemself). I am also in a long-term relationship with my Owner Onyx, who is also a queer polyamorous switch.

For more about me visit my personal blog Purveyor of Pleasure or check out my professional site Joyful Pleasure.

What is this place?

Wanton Lotus is my dedicated review site, where I post reviews of a range of adult products, anywhere from sex toys to porn to books on gender, sexuality, or relationships, and just about anything else. I’ve been reviewing toys online for over two years and have been playing with toys for my entire sexual life (since I was fourteen). I have built up quite a toy collection over the years, both bought by me and given to me to review.

I love reviewing products, telling my opinion about a sex toy, a book, a website, whatever it is. I love reviews so much I started Pleasurists, an adult product review round-up blog. Reviewing has become one of my great passions along with sexuality and sex education and I hope my reviews help you in whatever you are seeking.

Feel free to email me (Lotus AT ScarletStSyr.com) if you have any questions!