About
Who am I?
I’m a genderqueer fat femme drag queen fagette and pomo queer intellisexual polyamorous switch. My gender expression usually comes out within a femme drag queen framework, but I do not believe in confining my gender to one category, or binary gender labels, and I am just as comfortable in my pinstripe suit and doc’s as I am in a dress and heels.
For more about me personally visit my blog Femme Fagette
What is this place?
Wanton Lotus is my dedicated review site, where I post reviews of a range of adult products, anywhere from sex toys to porn to books on gender, sexuality, or relationships, and just about anything else. I’ve been reviewing toys online for over a year now and have been playing with toys for about nine years. I have built up quite a toy collection over the years, both bought by me and given to me to review.
There are a number of websites that I frequently review for, Babeland, Early to Bed, Pink Cherry, Tabu Toys, and SexToy.com are the ones you will see most often but I also review for various other companies as well as products which I purchase myself.
A list and brief description of the other sites I own, operate, or otherwise contribute on.
Femme Fagette
My personal blog, which has my reviews on it as well, but is mainly my place to express anything and everything about my life, sex or otherwise, and share my smut.
Deviant Decadence
My photoblog/photography site for me to show off my photography, get feedback, and hopefully become a better photographer for it. I’m only a novice photographer, I’ve taken one class on photography so I knows some of the basics, but I hopes that through my dedication to the site I will grow and learn to be a better photographer.
Pleasurists
An adult product review round-up blog, with new Pleasurists coming out every Monday with a list of reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. It’s my pet project, started because I love reviews and so many bloggers are reviewing now it’s often hard to keep track.
The Femme’s Guide
I started The Femme’s Guide (TFG) in August of 2008 with the intent of creating a group blog that would serve the femme community. TFG aims to create a resource for the online femme community, where femmes can gain helpful information about navigating in this world as a femme, learn about the way others view their femme identity, and come to a greater understanding of their own femme identity.
